Hi people... Thanks for commenting on my previous entry... :)

Relationship...

My defination of relationship, a period of time whereby u get to know more about the other party in terms of personality and life style and most important whether able to compromise, to fit into each other's life... Am i right?
Its so nice n sweet to have a good relationship... But most of the time mine hurts... Guess i'm not suitable to be in relationship... juz logged on to my friendster realised most of my friends either happily attached or married... Envy them... 一臉的幸福... me? 苦瓜臉一個... so sad.... but its ok lah afterall its not so bad to be single cos have all the freedom plus nothing to worry about... 又自我安慰... *faint*

Marriage...

No comment... think too early for me to think about that lah... plus no faith in marriage... see so much failure cases around me think i've phobia.. I agree with Paranoid... A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences. But who can really enjoy the difference? Guess most of the time is trying to change their partners to be more like themselves ba...

These few days kinda sad... A very close friend of mine getting married... By right i should be happy for him that he found himself a good wife but i'm not cause i know he wun be happy in this marriage... These few days i've been on the phone with him he keep telling me he is not happy.. u guys sure puzzled about why he still agree on the marriage? Well... he wants to settle down, have kids have a family of his own... but the girl he like can't accept him.. even thought he will be a good husband but she dun have feelings for him.. this girl he going to married with.. a nice girl and will be a good wife but he dun really love her but at the same time he doesn't want to hurt her too... complicated isn't it? Or maybe dramatic... 一直都希望看到他幸福但沒想到事情會演變到這種下場。該說的我都說了我無能為力。我不能給他他要的幸福只能默默為他祈禱希望他會幸福快樂。好 煩啊!!