I KNEW IT!!!!!
DAMN PISSED OFF!!! can't my parents juz leave me alone?? Seriously i can't stand them... They juz pissed me off!! Dad was down with flu these few days... quite serious... want him go see doctor but as usual he super stubborn dun want to go.He said he will buy from pharmacy so i suggest i go buy the medicine from the clinic instead cos doc's medicine is better compared to those in pharmacy right? Then he there grumbling trying to stop me from buying... Tell me did i do anything wrong? Then i insist on buying he flare up... "COME BACK!!! WHY? WHY MUST BUY THAT MEDICINE?" Hey... you are the one not feeling well not me k... i do that is for ur own good n now it sounds i'm in the wrong... i can leave it to you let you buy whatever you want... Sometimes really 好心沒好報.... End up i also fed up... In anger i said... "Thats my money non of ur business!!" Die... the min the words came out of my mouth i knew 大悲咒 gonna start again... Indeed I'M RIGHT!!! Wa!! mum join in the quarrel loh... "WA!!! people now very rich liao hor... earn a little money can talk loud liao..." same lah as usual those sarcastic words lah dun want to elaborate further... Worst thing i'm not working now so another thing for her to nag on... So there she goes, "I want to see how long u can dong... now ya ya liao ma.." DAMN!!!!! Dad is the one having flu and i ganna bombard... i shouldn't have help lah... Anyway... Dad n Mum i'm sorry i shouldn't be so nossey... MY fault ya... Opps sorry!!! Sometimes i really dun understand....
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Haiz.....all of time, we won't understand what parents heart is thinking of unless we be the parents in the future, then we wil know.
Sicking people is very hot temper to be. So please take care of them even thought the scold us this and that. This is the duty of son and daughter.
Bye.
My father also same as ur father. Sick liao dont wan to see doctor... Sibei stubborn kind.
Yeah.. maybe when we become parents then we will know...
No lah i'll still take care of them... yes i do understand that whatever parents did for their kid... And its difficult for them to accept the fact that kids grew up need their own space n to learn how to handle n take responsible for their things. But really i can must well keep my mouth shut dun quarrel with them anyway i'm not going to benefit in any ways...but i can't, i do care for them. but wats the point of caring for people when he/she dun appreciate at all? all the while i've been telling them i understand they love me but did they really ever think through wat they have done hurts a person more? they can't always use the way they think is the best for the kid.. maybe end up it cause more hurt to both parties... i dun believe quarrelling can bring more understanding.
They will heart pain for ur monie de ah. It's just that they phrase it in a wrong way thus making u feel piss off as to y u r sick le don wan c doc.
容忍、孝顺、爱心。
共勉之。
i know i do have very bad tempered.. sometimes i know i shouldn't talk like that... but seriously i gan cheong for them... the other time mum go for check up n she kept everything from me n sis later part i found out i'm more sad than angry... u know i dunno wat i should do to bring across to them that i really care for them... wat they did does not lessen my burden they worsen it... they make me feel worst... we are in a family why can't we juz talk about the problem n solve together? so for now no matter big big small small check up i follow them.. i make sure i read the report... i really dunno wat can i do liao... i'm really angry that i'm here caring n gan cheong for them n they dun understand at all... if i dun love them i dun even bother... but i really care.. :(
天下那有不疼儿女的父母。。。。
骂出咀里，
痛在心里。
迁就迁就他们。。。。
Try to understand your parents.
I give you a few reason:
No parents will nagged at his children. One reason they nagged is, They are worry about you, maybe you are not ready to do serious stuffs, so they guide you along by nagging.
Hope that will help you in understand your lao bu and lao pei.
Bye.
hmmm
sometimes just leave them alone..
that's the best policy. weird right? but that's the way to go.
Lau Hero: Thanks for ur advice... i'll try ur way.. i do understand why they behave such a way but sometimes i juz pek chek that i can't let them understand that i'm not here testing their ability but we r family n because of that i care... i feel so terribly bad when i can do something but yet i'm not allow to. anyway now seldom wanna quarrel with them unless things really urgent n need to be solved immediately. sometimes heartache feeling is stronger than any other feelings...
Starlandliu: its not that i dun understand how they feel but sometimes time juz dun allow them to be stubborn. And they r getting into 更年期 period so they tend to nag alot juz wanna find something to talk... this i understand too so i always find time to talk to them but i still need to let them know that we're grown up certain things juz leave it to me n sis we'll make ur life so much easier n happy... i think it takes time to make them realise...
Spinee: yeah!! i agree... but with such reaction i'm being accuse for no longer care for them or i grew up le i dun need them anymore n mum start crying... haiz!!! 我兩為其難﹐ 難做人... :(
JF: i'm always grateful to them n i love them lots n because of that i always wanna give them the best... always want them to leave the problem to me dun want them to worry for things but they dun understand.. but i do understand too that its difficult for them to get use to leaving the problem to us cos for the past 20++ yrs we rely on them so for now its turning the other way round so thats why they feel we dun need them anymore... for parents i know its difficult to accept this fact but eventually they still have to face the fact.. now is the role changing period so i do know it takes time sometimes i juz need to vent out my anger only but still i love them...
parents will never understand their children 100%..guess thats generation gap..take good care of ur dAd..:P
Fireburn,
I will thanks!! :) welcome back...
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